Are you good enough? Attractive enough? Smart enough? Fit enough? Nice enough? Are cognitive distortions messing with your head? Let’s start with easier questions. Is this dog cute enough? How about this baby? Now let’s move on to harder questions. Is the dog cute enough—for what? To be saved from the pound? …
What do goats have to do with nice girls and cognitive habits? Well, read on… A friend recently sent me the meme shown here. At first, I just laughed and replied along the lines of, “2020 the year that keeps giving,” and “Stop the planet I wanna get off.” And then I started thinking. I had …
As a psychologist, my job is to help people figure out what cognitive habits and what behavior habits they have developed that get in the way of their happiness, and then help them change those habits. In other words, I help them get a handle on their habits. Allow me to clarify. What Are Habits? …
